1979 Ph.D. University of California at
Los Angeles - Counseling Psychology
1965 M.S.W. University of Southern California
School of Social Work
1957 B.A. University of California at Los
Los Angeles - Major in Psychology
Society For Clinical Social Work
American Psychological Association
Division of Psychoanalysis
California Psychological Association
American Academy of Psychoanalysis, Research Analyst
The American Family Therapy Association
American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy
The American Group Psychotherapy Association
Board of Directors, International Experiential Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy Assn.
California Psychoanalytic Society
SEPI
Solomon, M and Tatkin, S. (2010) “Love and War In Intimate Relationships.” New York: W. W. Norton
Fosha, D., Siegel, D., and Solomon, M. (in Press), “The Healing Power Of Emotion. New York, W. W. Norton
Solomon, M. and Tatkin, S. (In Press) “Love and War In Intimate Relationships. New York, W. W. Norton
Fosha, D., Siegel, D., and Solomon, M. (in Press), “The Healing Power Of Emotion. New York, W. W. Norton
Solomon, M. and Siegel, D., (2003) Healing Trauma. New York, W. W. Norton
Solomon, M., Neborsky, R., McCullough, L., Alpert, M., Shapiro, F., Malan, D. (2001) Short-Term Therapy for Long-Term Change. New York, W.W. Norton.
Solomon, M. and Siegel, J. (1997) Countertransference in Couples Therapy. New York,
W. W. Norton.
Solomon, M. (1994). Lean on Me: The Power of Positive Dependency in Intimate Relationships. New York: Simon and Schuster
Solomon, M. (1989). Narcissism and Intimacy: Love and Marriage in an Age of Confusion. New York: W.W. Norton.
Grotstein, J., Solomon, M., & Lang, J. (1987). The Borderline Patient: Emerging Concepts in Diagnosis, Etiology, Psychodynamics, and Treatment. New Jersey: The Analytic Press.
Solomon, M., (2010) “The Me Nobody Knows: Attachment Repair In Couples Therapy.” In (Ed) Alan Gurman, Cliical Casebook of Couple Therapy. New York: Guilford Press.
“Emotion In Romantic Partners: Intimacy Found, Intimacy Lost, Intimacy Reclaimed.” In Fosha, D., Siegel, D., and Solomon, M. (in Press), “The Healing Power Of Emotion. New York, W. W. Norton
Solomon, M. (In Press) “Marital Therapy with PTSD Patients,” (Eds.) Drs. Gil Reyes, Jon Elhai, and Julian Ford, Encyclopedia of Psychological Trauma. New York. Wiley
Solomon, M. (2006) “How Neuroscience Can Inform Couples’ Therapy, Family Therapy Magazine, September-October, 2006, pp. 24-27.
Solomon, M. (2006) Book Review of “Dealing With Resistance in Psychotherapy, American Journal of Psychoanalysis.
Solomon, M. (2003) “Attachment, Disruption, Repair,” in Solomon, M. and Siegel, D.,(Eds.), Healing Trauma. New York, W. W. Norton
Solomon, M. (2002), “The Dream in a Tavistock Group,” in C. Neri, M. Pines, and R. Friedman, (Eds.), Dreams in Group Psychotherapy: Theory and Technique, London: Jessica Kingsley Publisheers.
Solomon, M. and Lynn, R. (2002) “Object Relations Couple Therapy, (Eds. Florence Kaslow and Magnatita) “Comprehensive Handbook of Psychotherapy, Volume 1 – Psychodynamic/Object Relations.” New York, Wiley
Neborsky, R. and Solomon, M. (2001) “Attachment Bonds and Intimacy: Can The Primary Imprint of Love Change?” In M. Solomon, et al., “Short Term Therapy For Long Term Change, New York, W. W. Norton
Solomon, M. (2001) “Breaking The Deadlock of Marital Collusion.” In M. Solomon, et al., “Short Term Therapy For Long Term Change, New York, W. W. Norton
Solomon, M. (1997) Narcissists as partners. In Elsa Ronningstam (Ed.) Narcissistic Personality Disorder, New York, American Psychiatric Press.
Solomon, M. (1997) Treating narcissistic and borderline relationships. In J. Carlson (ed.) The Disordered Couple, New York, Brunner /Mazel.
Solomon, M. (1997). On love and lust in the countertransference. Journal of the American Academy of Psychoanalysis. 25:1, Fall, pp. .
Solomon, M. (1996). Understanding and treating couples with borderline disorders. In F. Kaslow (Ed.) Relational Diagnosis and Dysfunctional Family Patterns. New York: John Wily & Sons, Inc.
Solomon, M. (1996) Self Psychology and Couples Therapy. In A. Goldberg (ed.) Progress In Self Psychology: Vol.XII. New Jersey: The Analytic Press.
Solomon, M. (1994). Narcissism and intimacy: Treating the wounded couple. The Family Journal: Counseling and Therapy for Couples and Families. 2:2, April, pp. 104-113.
Solomon, M., and Weiss, N. (1992). Integration of Daniel Stern's developmental theory into a model of couples therapy. Clinical Social Work. 20:4, Winter, pp. 124-137.
Solomon, M. (1991). Narcissistic vulnerability in marriage. Journal of Couples Therapy. Vol 1, no. 3/4 pp. 25-38.
Solomon, M. (1988). Treatment of narcissistic vulnerability in marital therapy. In A. Goldberg (Ed.) Progress in self psychology: Vol. IV. New Jersey: The Analytic Press. pp. 215-230.
Solomon, M. (1988). Self psychology and Marital Relationships. International Journal of Family Psychiatry. Vol.9, No. 3 pp. 211-226.
Solomon, M. (1987). The application of psychodynamic theories to the nonanalytic treatment of borderline disorders. In J. Grotstein, M. Solomon, & J. Lang (Eds.) The Borderline Patient : Emerging Concepts in Diagnosis, Etiology, Psychodynamics, and Treatment. New Jersey: The Analytic Press.
Solomon, M. (1985). Treatment of narcissistic and borderline disorders in marital therapy: Suggestions toward an enhanced therapeutic approach. Clinical Social Work, 13(2), 141-156.
2000-Present Senior Extension Faculty
UCLA Extension - Health Sciences, Humanities
Sciences and Social Sciences
1974 - Present UCLA Extension - Health Sciences, Humanities,Sciences and Social Sciences Program Consultant /Coordinator of Psychological
Training Programs
1971-Present Private Practice and Supervision of Individual, Group and Couples’ Therapy
1978-Present Director of Clinical Training
The Lifespan Learning Institute – California Psychological Association, Approved MCEP Provider, Los Angeles, California
1995 - 2001 Professor, American Behavioral Studies Institute, Los Angeles
1981 - 1995 UCLA – Coordinator of Mental Health Training Programs, Department of Humanities, Sciences and Social Sciences
1978 - 1984 Parent Education Consultant - Family therapist
Beverly Hills Unified School District
1970 - 1973 Field Work Instructor—UCLA Social Work Students
University of California, Los Angeles
1969 - 1975 Psychological Consultant—Parent - Child Issues
Park Century School, Santa Monica, CA
1972 - 1975 Adjunct Clinical Professor
Department of Legal Psychiatry
Neuropsychiatric Institute
University of California, Los Angeles
1968 - 1970 Field Work Instructor—USC Social Work Students
University of Southern California, Los Angeles
1967 - 1968 Family Therapy Program
San Fernando Valley Juvenile Hall
1966 - 1967 One year sabbatical in Paris, France
Studied French Psychoanalysis at the Sorbonne
1965 - 1966 Intake Officer - Family Treatment Program
Las Palmas School for Girls
1960 -- 1965 Investigation of Adolescents For Juvenile Court
Los Angeles County Probation Department
1957 – 1960 Child Placement
Los Angeles County Probation Department
2008 Erikson Institute
“Countertransference, Intersubjectivity and
The Therapist’s Use of Self in Treatment”
2007 CAMFT – Los Angeles
“Self Psychology and Couples’ Therapy”
2006 Psychotherapy Networker, Washington DC
“Lean On Me”“
2005 Monterey Family Therapy Association
“Treating Problems of Relationships
2005 SCSW
“Attachment, Brain and Mind in Couples’ Therapy
2004 Psychotherapy Networker West
Early Attachment Issues In Couples Therapy
2004 Aviva Center, Keynote Speaker,
“Attachment and the Therapeutic Relationship”
2003 American Association of Family Therapy
“Attachment Theory and Affective Neurosciences in Couples’ Therapy”
Austin Society For Psychoanalytic Psychology
“Narcissism and Intimacy”
2002 Los Angeles Group Psychotherapy Association
Countertransference and the Self Of The Therapist
2000 Young Presidents Organization-“Raising Financially Responsible Children
2007 “Mindfulness and Psychotherapy”
2007 “The healing Power of Emotion”
2006 “The Embodied Mind”
2005 “How Psychodynamic Psychotherapies Change The mind and the Brain”
2004 “Family Perspectives On Borderline Personality Disorders
2004 “Traumatic Attachments and Borderline Personality Disorders
2003 “New Developments In Attachment Theory”
2002 “Attachment Theory and Affective Neuroscience in Clinical Action
2002 “Attachment: From Early Childhood Through The Lifespan
University Of California, Los Angeles
2001 “Anatomy Of Intimacy”
University Of California, Irvine
2000 “Healing Trauma” - The 2000 Cutting Edge Conference, University of California, San Diego
1999 “Short Term Therapy For Long Term Change” – The 1999 Cutting Edge Conference, University of California, San Diego
1999 “The Primitive Unconscious in Men and Women”: Toward a Dynamic Theory of Couple’s Relationships
“The Core Relationship Problem-Developmental and Clinical Issues”
1998 "Understanding and Treating Trauma”: Developmental and Neurobiological Approaches
“Addictions and The Injured Self”
1997 "Short Term Therapy for Long Term Change"
“EMDR In The Treatment of Trauma”
